HKofsesshoumaru 673 Report post Posted February 17, 2010 SO I was thinking maybe I was going crazy and coming up with shit but I know in my gut Im right. I have heard from several people that my husband is cheating on me. Now I thought I was being crazy and these people were making shit up for reasons I don't know. I have heard from guys and girls my husband is cheating. One girl I know for sure cuz I kinda set the whole thing up. I layed the trap to see if he would take the bait and TWICE he fucked this chick. Then she came forward and started telling me while Im out of town visiting my daughter he is always texting her to come over. She didnt have a single text message to show me tho. My husband says its the other way around. But no one can show me a text message. Now I did some snooping and opened up the bank statement this month and this month alone I have discovered he paid for a porn site and a online XXX dating site called Adult Friend Finder. I called the number on one of the charges and it was for a online porn site. He is claiming that he is broke so he can download porn!! WTF? SO yeah Im thinking it's time for a divorce. I can't handle this shit anymore. [sIGPIC][/sIGPIC] "Well, Toutousai...don't you think it's a pity for Tessaiga? All Inuyasha can do is wave about a sword with all his strength...it's the same whether it's a famous sword or a log." -Sesshoumaru Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Sledgstone 8,672 Report post Posted February 17, 2010 Have you thought about counseling as a first step? Maybe theres something there worth saving? Or is he being a complete ass and not even apologizing? Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
HKofsesshoumaru 673 Report post Posted February 18, 2010 We went to a councelor and she is a biased bitch. I thought we were getting some where in couceling but were not. I tried talking to him but all he wants to do is ignore me and play WOW. [sIGPIC][/sIGPIC] "Well, Toutousai...don't you think it's a pity for Tessaiga? All Inuyasha can do is wave about a sword with all his strength...it's the same whether it's a famous sword or a log." -Sesshoumaru Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ladywriter 7,783 Report post Posted February 18, 2010 if counseling dun work..... I'm pro divorce because of crap like this. Look at the flowers Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Tristan9480 198 Report post Posted February 18, 2010 Just go ahead and divorce him. I'm not saying you shouldn't try and make things work out but if its that bad then its not worth the hassle. He could be fishing for other arrangements because he thinks divorce is inevitable or he just is just a cheating horndog. [sIGPIC][/sIGPIC] Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
HKofsesshoumaru 673 Report post Posted February 18, 2010 cheating horndog is what his ex tells me. I believe it [sIGPIC][/sIGPIC] "Well, Toutousai...don't you think it's a pity for Tessaiga? All Inuyasha can do is wave about a sword with all his strength...it's the same whether it's a famous sword or a log." -Sesshoumaru Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kite 3,263 Report post Posted February 18, 2010 tbh if he is sleeping with other people, then dump his ass but if your unhappy regardless of cheating or not, divorce his ass and screw him so hard in the divorce his porn subscription will be his has spend Bruce Campbell: '' This place has more security then the Batcave '' Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
HKofsesshoumaru 673 Report post Posted February 18, 2010 So he told me he went to a movie last night but didnt bring home the ticket stub cuz he said he got his money back since he couldnt finish the movie it was so long. I don't believe this story at all. This morning he tells me he just needs time to think in these two weeks he is going out to california. Im still thinking I need to just pack my shit and leave. [sIGPIC][/sIGPIC] "Well, Toutousai...don't you think it's a pity for Tessaiga? All Inuyasha can do is wave about a sword with all his strength...it's the same whether it's a famous sword or a log." -Sesshoumaru Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ladywriter 7,783 Report post Posted February 18, 2010 don't beat yourself up over somebody that isnt worth it Look at the flowers Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Sledgstone 8,672 Report post Posted February 19, 2010 So he goes to movies by himself and hes going on vacation in california for two weeks by himself? Divorce his ass and and claim that you want his WOW account as part of your alimony. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Tristan9480 198 Report post Posted February 19, 2010 So he told me he went to a movie last night but didnt bring home the ticket stub cuz he said he got his money back since he couldnt finish the movie it was so long. I don't believe this story at all. This morning he tells me he just needs time to think in these two weeks he is going out to california. Im still thinking I need to just pack my shit and leave. Wow.... Maybe he should just straight out tell you he is cheating rather than come out with something so lame [sIGPIC][/sIGPIC] Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
HKofsesshoumaru 673 Report post Posted February 19, 2010 So he goes to movies by himself and hes going on vacation in california for two weeks by himself? Divorce his ass and and claim that you want his WOW account as part of your alimony. He took the baby with him to california because Im in school and his mom will watch the baby for free. The girl he cheats on me with or one of them lives in cali. I talked to my mom today and I think she is going to help me get a storage unit this week so I can get the hell out of here. I have somewhere else to go. [sIGPIC][/sIGPIC] "Well, Toutousai...don't you think it's a pity for Tessaiga? All Inuyasha can do is wave about a sword with all his strength...it's the same whether it's a famous sword or a log." -Sesshoumaru Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
slippers 3,168 Report post Posted February 19, 2010 damn that sucks. sorry to hear. what a jerk. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Pchan 5,162 Report post Posted February 19, 2010 ^ Ditto. Any person who pays for porn online is just dumb. Period. I am putting myself to the fullest possible use, which is all I think that any conscious entity can ever hope to do. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ladywriter 7,783 Report post Posted February 19, 2010 The important thing is that you take care of you first. It's not selfish, its practical. You can't give 100% to family or career or whatever the hell when you're riding around on an out of control drama llama. if yer David Duchovny wanna be husband has left you angry and frustrated (and rightly so) a good therapist can help you empower yourself. Put yourself first during the shitties of times makes the going through faster/easier Look at the flowers Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
gokuDX7 2,871 Report post Posted February 25, 2010 Divorce his ass and and claim that you want his WOW account as part of your alimony. hahah if he's as obsessed with WoW as some of my friends then that would be punishment enough. He'd probably kill himself. @Godgrave - true true, why buy porn when 99% of it on the web is free. PS. adult friend finder is a one night stand/web cam site. You search for local chicks or dudes that are looking to score and chat with them and maybe meet and go at it. Kind of like Match.com only just sex. All hail piggy, king of bacon ^)^ Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
HKofsesshoumaru 673 Report post Posted March 1, 2010 Not only does he have an Adult friend finder account but now he has a ALT.com account which is a sister site to AFF. I mean the shit I keep finding is just too much!!!! [sIGPIC][/sIGPIC] "Well, Toutousai...don't you think it's a pity for Tessaiga? All Inuyasha can do is wave about a sword with all his strength...it's the same whether it's a famous sword or a log." -Sesshoumaru Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ladywriter 7,783 Report post Posted March 2, 2010 Run Forrest run! Get away from that skank. Look at the flowers Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
