Ladywriter 7,783 Report post Posted February 19, 2010 earlier this week I had to go to court in an attempt to collect a fair and reasonable amount of child support for my 14 year old daughter. Under our longstanding order Jackass pays 28$ a month, yes I said a month. The original order was 25$ a month because he was in jail for his burglary, domestic violence and DWI charges. The 25 to 28 was cost of living adjustments over the years. When he first got out of jail he struggled to find work (felon) and whatever and eventually after some years of dicking around went to culinary school for a few more years before getting a real job that didn't pay under the table. His mom bought our daughter school clothes, winter outerwear and such, wrote checks for school lunch... you get the picture. That came to an abrupt end this summer when I quit talking to Jackass and his mum. They pissed me off so bad the 6th hell opened up in my living room. So... I file for an increase, its time he actually help support our kid all of the time instead of just when I'm tolerating his scummy ass getting out of his car at my house. It turns out based on what he's making I'm entitled to 88$ a week. 28$ a month to 88$ a week. At the prelim he stood there and lied his ass off which didn't fly well with the magistrate and she let him have it. She even told me to stfu when I called him out so that she could call him out. Jackass offered 20$ a week and pay for school lunches 'upon request'. I said yo man I don't think so and so we have a return date for a hearing. I suppose I could also mention that he's never carried health insurance on her either, he's left everything up to me n sledgers. I could mention he gets drunk with his friends and they throw garbage cans at each other in front of 12 year old girls. I could mention he takes her to the theme park w/ his g/f and her creepy kids and lets her eat a hot dog and pretzel as breakfast lunch and dinner but he has money that night to get wasted. 5 DWI's one just 2 years ago. He takes international vacations and even has a boat on Skaneateles Lake. The man thinks he's perpetually 16 years old. I assume he drinks a good portion of his paycheck. yeah... So I figure I'll ask the judge for the 88 a week and I'll ask it be retro-dated to when he started at least this on the books job a year and a half ago. Maybe he won't be going to Cancun this year and I can get a new microwave. Jered... [ame=http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OK4fJhbRL1g]YouTube- Fuck You - Lily Allen (Lyrics)[/ame] Look at the flowers Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kite 3,263 Report post Posted February 19, 2010 it is hard to believe these dead bead .. whats the american word: 'douch bags' actually exist off of TV im sorry for your situation. i really hope your daughter realizes that he is a waste of oxygen Bruce Campbell: '' This place has more security then the Batcave '' Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Dubird 6,815 Report post Posted February 19, 2010 I'm glad you have a supportive judge for this, too. That'll make a difference. Yesterday was the deadline for all complaints! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ladywriter 7,783 Report post Posted February 20, 2010 douche bag is just what I was calling him as we were walking back to the car Look at the flowers Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
CabbitGirl 4,018 Report post Posted February 20, 2010 wow. just.... wow. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
slippers 3,168 Report post Posted February 20, 2010 that's messed up agreeing with kite's last sentence Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Sledgstone 8,672 Report post Posted February 20, 2010 He'd rather pay for a lawyer to fight minimum state required child support, than actually pay child support. wtf. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Pchan 5,162 Report post Posted February 24, 2010 o_0 ... I am putting myself to the fullest possible use, which is all I think that any conscious entity can ever hope to do. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites