boondock_saint 294 Report post Posted December 16, 2009 so this has been a fairly common thing in my life. I crush easily on girls and generally have trouble committing to relationships that I am in. Currently, I am pursuing a girl I go to college with. But I have a lot of friends who are girls and some of them I used to have a "thing" for and if I think about our interactions from the past, I start to redevelop a crush on them. My thoughts are pretty scattered right now and I guess Im just trying to figure things out for myself before I jump into a relationship. But, I just wanted to see what feedback I could get from yall. peace love and chincken grease Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Myk JL 1,731 Report post Posted December 16, 2009 My experience isn't going to help much... But from it all I can state is... Lust leads to stupidity. Love leads to misery. Although I much prefer Ron White's advice... [ame=http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0gxKStPXyn8]YouTube- Ron White - Stupid is forever[/ame] Quote Those who fight deplorables should see to it that they themselves do not become deplorables. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ladywriter 7,783 Report post Posted December 16, 2009 well, if yer confused with all the options before you, choose nothing. You aren't required to have a girlfriend, its something you choose when you click with the right person. Quote Look at the flowers Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Pchan 5,162 Report post Posted December 16, 2009 (edited) If you've got a crush on, for example - 5 girls, have a 6some with them. The girl you think of the most after the experience is the one you're more inclined to like. Makes sense, right? And, forget I said that X'D. Edited December 16, 2009 by Godgrave Quote I am putting myself to the fullest possible use, which is all I think that any conscious entity can ever hope to do. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Trigger 250 Report post Posted January 3, 2010 Listen to Lady, you don't have to have a girlfriend, i suggest you just take two steps back and just be a friend, if sometime later down the road you feel you'd like to give it a shot, go for it, otherwise don't rush into a relationship and definitely don't loose sleep over it. btw nice video Myk JL Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kite 3,263 Report post Posted January 3, 2010 sleep with them then see how you feel. at 18ish, its hard to tell lust from genuine infatuation after sex, see how you feel, results might surprise you Quote Bruce Campbell: '' This place has more security then the Batcave '' Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ladywriter 7,783 Report post Posted January 3, 2010 1 in 4 has a sti if yer gonna go poking around wrap yer junk dude Quote Look at the flowers Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Sledgstone 8,672 Report post Posted January 8, 2010 sleep with them then see how you feel. at 18ish, its hard to tell lust from genuine infatuationafter sex, see how you feel, results might surprise you You have a point, but I'd be careful with that, what if someone had crabs? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Pchan 5,162 Report post Posted January 8, 2010 I ... would ... know ... or ... actually even care right now Quote I am putting myself to the fullest possible use, which is all I think that any conscious entity can ever hope to do. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
HKofsesshoumaru 673 Report post Posted January 8, 2010 I agree with lady. You DON'T have to have a girlfriend but wrap it before you tap it. Quote [sIGPIC][/sIGPIC] "Well, Toutousai...don't you think it's a pity for Tessaiga? All Inuyasha can do is wave about a sword with all his strength...it's the same whether it's a famous sword or a log." -Sesshoumaru Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Pchan 5,162 Report post Posted January 10, 2010 Off Topic: I have to have a girlfriend. Quote I am putting myself to the fullest possible use, which is all I think that any conscious entity can ever hope to do. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites