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Last year work forgot to send me the memo that they were closed on New Year's day. Since I worked 5am to 1pm I went to bed at like 9pm night before. I went to work and pressed the gate to get in and no one answered. It was freezing that morning and I walked around the building only to see that we were closed. I skipped out on some kick ass parties for nothing. To top it off my boss says to me the following day "That sucks. Sorry you didn't get the memo" WTF? So this year I went to a party... I went to my pastor's house for new year's which is where my wedding will be held. My dad has major issues with his Fiance, so he hired a $1200.00 a day shrink to come over and watch him and her interact. Since then he has haggled me to go and due the same plus take marriage classes before the big day. No body liked his baby beating GF to begin with and after she spanked my daughter and lied about it, we all really don't like her. At the party last night the pastor and his wife were chatting with Doug and I about the big day when daddy dearest comes over and starts in on his shit with the whole 'it's ok if god is telling you not now. You can still cancel.' WTF!? I looked at him and was like unless you have the bat phone to jesus where you can get him on speed dial to tell me to cancel my wedding, than back off. Lucky for me the pastor's wife chimed in and kindly reminded him that this is 'our' (meaning Doug and I's day). My dad snuffed off somewhere. Then this lady and I were chatting it up and I mentioned my dad's fucked up ways of talking to me and how his relationship with the GF is bullshit. Little did I realize that the lady I was chatting with was like super close buddies to my dad and his GF. Infact, I believe they are business partners. Ooops. Oh well. Now she knows what a bunch of disfunctional people they really are. Plus, she gave me a huge hug, said we were great people (Doug and I) and that she would join us at the wedding. I left the party before midnight to avoid the drunk drivers. I watched Sin City while Doug was visiting with our neighbors and drinking a beer. All in All..It was a pretty good New year's.

LOL. DORK! Yeah I just now noticed that. Wow baby must be sucking brain cells too.

Wow the waitress game is a lot like 'Diner dash', which I have on my phone.

They were dead a long time ago..;Im not famous, blond haired and blue eyed making millions a year. But what I have now, are better than I could have dreamed. I have: A great daughter (when she isn't telling me "no, I don't want to!" and throwing fits) great hubby to be (When he isn't telling me "No I don't want to" and throwing fits...J/K:meh: and a great support team from friends and family!

OMFG! This was almost as bad as watching those PETA awareness videos. Did you see his sad little face when they hit him? He hung his head in hurt. Then he "died" when they strangled him. What kind of fucked up toy is that? Lmao. What if a little kid strangled him, and his dumb ass "dies". Think of the trama to the kid. Years of therapy. Look at my sister who bitches that I messed up her childhood because I broke her favorite toy: Teddy Ruxpin. (NO JOKE!) She blames her drug addiction and poor financial situation on me breaking her stupid talking bear. Must be the prego hormones because this shit usually dosn't bother me.

So, the gf and I had a meeting today. Infact she invited me in to have a seat. being pregnant not only makes my hormones crazy, but mysteriously I get some huge balls, because I am not afraid of shit. We chatted calmly and civil. Apparently, I lost my cool and told Caitlin that the gf was not mommy, and I was her real mother. This upset her very much and she went home crying saying that she couldn't call Jayme "mommy jayme" anymore. She didn't understand the concept of real mommy. To her, Jayme is mommy to her daughter (from her previous marriage) and the baby (who is caitlin's half brother.) Caitlin has been around jayme since she was only a few months old, and it was jayme who took care of her when my ex was at work. He is at work alot. By telling her that someone so close to her was not real, really hurt Cailtlin's feelings. It makes her feel like an outcast. Families are not always put together by blood. I guess I can say that Caitlin is fortunate to be at home instead of in a day care or passed around to various friends and family to be watched while we are all at work. I would rob her by taking her away from her "sister" and baby brother who she has grown up with in the last 3 years. I don't like a lot of the shit that goes down in my ex's house, and I will be asking for more time with my daughter. I felt bad, I mean know one likes to hurt their kids. But the Gf and I had a good chat. I am glad we can be civil (for now) and I hope ithis all works out.

My ex and I were assigned to go to a parenting class and the dip shit ex didn't go. I did and did it with in a week of her order. I hate lawyers, but I may have to go that route because mediation is a waste of money and time. I have nothing to fear with CPS or any court appointed person to look at my house. The ex though...he smoke weed like it's going out of style. That's not enough though to get anyone to go out there and investigate unless I get the cops involved. He lives in a small town and the cops all know us. He would get hinted it was me calling real quick. He may have some dumb shit on me from a few years back,(ex GF and I got in a fight, I got thrown doown some stairs and I went to jail for it. Fucking Arizona DV laws) but I have been out of any kind of trouble (no record of crime or traffic violations) in 2 years. Other than that I am good.

My daughter is 3. She just turned 3 Dec 6th. She has been potty trained for almost a year. My ex and his gf have a new baby. He is like 4 months now. He is one of those babies that has to be held ALL the time. So a lot of energy goes into baby. Caitlin always tells me she loves me. I don't like to think that I spoil her, but I do give her a lot of attention. I mean, on the weekend I am all about her. We so things she likes with a few exceptions. I have errands to run usually with the wedding stuff going on but I try to include her and make it fun. I even added butterflies to my theme because my daughter loves them, and she enjoys looking at all the butterfly stuff. I think that she does not get a whole lot of attention with her dad. Also, she has been saying that the other little girl who is almost 5 (the gf has a daughter from her previous marriage) is "mean" to her. I remember picking on my little sister growing up, so that didn't bother me too much but still I have to wonder.

I am not sure how many of us on here have children with an ex but I have my daughter with my ex bf of 4 years. Lately his dumb ass GF has been calling me non-stop blaming me for all of my daughter's flaws and behavior. I see my daughter on the weekends for now (I'm heading to court after the 1st to get that changed) and my daughter stays with her dad 5 days a week. I left the ex 3 years ago after 4 years of abuse. Granted now he is much better and has never raised a hand on his new GF or my daughter, it seems that he has pussed out more than I ever imagined he could. His Gf not only wears the pants but she has his balls in her back pocket. She threatens me almost every time she calls me, but I am afraid a restraining order would complicate things. So, I make my best efforts to be nice I see we are going to have a major issue. The real kicker? My daughter peed her pants, first time in like months last weekend. Now, there is a new baby in the house and I suspect that she may be doing it to get attention. But when I came to pick her up last weekend, my ex's Gf was yelling at her that " Only dogs pee on carpets and babies". My little girl cried, and I scooped her up and left. She asked me " Can i have breakfast now? I am sorry I peed my pants." The gf then fucking calls me and says "Oh, Caitlin didn't eat yet." Hmmmmmm...... AND the worst part? I picked Caitlin up at 9am, by 2pm she was saying "Mommy, I am not a dog or a baby right?" That shit pissed me off. Granted I know kids say the craziest things. Her new thing is blaming everything on a mysterious skunk. She is only 3 years old, but the phycho gf calls me up and blames me saying that I mentally fucked my own child up in the head by spoiling her? Please. I am at the end of my rope with this bitch and the ex just seems to let it go and write it off. I have talked to him about her harshness, but he brushes it off!! Any Advice? I am already filing in court to modify our parental agreement.

What did you get for Christmas? I got lucky with the Costco card Doug's parents got me and we snagged a PS3 set, I have been non-stop addicted to it. LOL. My hubby-to-be (Jan 13th 2008: Wedding date!) picked me up a few great items for x-mas.Instead of wrapping them he created a scavenger hunt, where I had a clue about the item and a clue where it was at. Fun!!! Here are a few things I found hidden around my house: Lair The game guide for Lair Halloween (The new Rob Zombie version) A new jacket and scarf The Boondocks box set The rest of the stuff was a lot of flavored chap sticks, soap, lotion and bath stuff from the rest form his family and mine since I love bath stuff. I snagged Doug Heavenly Sword and the guide book along with the Pirates 3 special 2 disc version that he wanted. This is the 1st x-mas that I actually got stuff. The last 3 were nothing but family fights and a shitty paying job. Last year all my money got dumped into bills and I still Didn't have have enough. Plus, my ex bf was a total cheap skate. No joke. He got me 3 wooden fish (my bathroom is all fish) that had 49 cents written on the bottom of them from a goodwill and handed them to me unwrapped. Yeah, this year was a hell of lot better.

This movie kicked ass. I loved it!

Yeah! Happy Birthday! What did you get? anything good?

Five finger death punch "Bleeding" This song is bad ass.

Wow. Get some pics for sure. I love seeing what our troops do on their down time.

I was a back man in a previous life..LOL. Im kidding that was some inside joke with friends. I'm as white as it gets (red hair, green eyes, white pale china doll skin). Why the hell do people mistake you for a girl? Welcome back though. Glad to hear you survived. I survived meeting in laws last week and spending a week with them. I will be working out there for the few weeks with a small break on friday, saturday and sunday since I will be back in Arizona. Thank gawd the all loved me.

Hello and Welcome. I am an Inuyasha geek too. Sess is my fav. LOL.

Oh man I would puss out too to play Assassin's Creed too! That games looks bad ass!

My daughter talks better than most five year olds and some adults, though I wonder if I should still have her checked out?

OMG! It was awesome! :happy:It was kinda like watching the animation to a Playstation 3 game, but the detail was amazing! The best part about it is AMC has a deal that if you go any Friday Saturday or Sunday before noon, tickets are $5.00 (Adult admissions). Sweet.

It was a book? I thought the story of Beowulf was based off a poem.

WTF am I getting fired for? Dragon Ball Z (the original series) is awesome. I don't know about it now since it has been years since I have watched it but Chi Chi was always my favorite.

I am seeing it tonight and can't wait. I heard even Angelina Jolie got a bit shy on how real her nude scenes were. LOL.

I gather stuff through out the year. I am in charge of paying for my daugher's birthday Dec 6th. So, I have to double up on the moola in the month of Dec.

I am so excited! I love Dragon Ball Z!!!! That's if they can match up to the original series..doubtful *shrugs*